Reconciling with my ethnic appearance!
I am what I am - a nurturing loving woman!

Took me a while to reconcile with the way I look - Fortunately! I grew up confidently within a society confident about my native ethnic appearance! Recently I didn't feel lovable enough. Many times I've looked at the wide nose on my face -but my cousin has the same nose (or similar) and she looks gorgeous, so what am I complaining about?

I asked my female Facebook friends to vote for my virtual make-over appearance - most of them voted A & B equally. Only a few voted for my original appearance. 

My "Rupauled" virtual make-overs: "working girl"

Yes! Having lived and seen a bit on how corporate America judges a woman's appearance, I can tell the artificial blond and redhead gets the most attention. Why?! The independent corporate brunette looks a lot more reserved.  - so Audrey Hepburn's "Breakfast at Tiffany's" is not as popular as I thought.  
I noticed that the honest man who loves you doesn't judge like that after all.  Men choose women not by their tailored looks! :-) They still go for her SCENT, VOICE TONE during certain hormonal cycles.  The tailored 'Rupauled' almost drag-like look for women was developed over years by fashionistas - opposite the feminists.  


Famous women's psychologists suggest that self love and self image of a woman is influenced in the way she relates in her relations with others.
so after figuring out how it all works! I respect my own genetic make-up, my personality -which comes from inside out: my morals and conduct 

the Eastern Look!

the after facial look

my recent natural appearance of self acceptance

my recent hair color change

And hereby I'll leave you with that thought!

Thanks!

Ratna!